Pra sa mga OFW…
eto po ang isang istorya ng buhay na aking isang kaibigan na itatago ko sa pangalang ANONYMOUS…(hehehe ayaw n daw nya ipalagay name nya…nahiya ang loko…)
sana ay may mapulot kayo kahit konting aral mula rito… enjoy reading… =)
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Ok.. let us put some degree and semblance of seriousness here….
Discover something that you both like to do and enjoy it TWOgether. And do it in the privacy of your HOME ba tawag dun??? Eh pulos bedspace at parition kaya dito.
Sa maniwala kat sa hindi - yes ako ang nagsasabi nito : Pray while you holds the hand of your loved one. Sounds corny noh? Maybe, but its very powerful.
Believe in “Magic”. Kahit minsan di practical o walang logical na dahilan, o matrabaho, o sounds crazy sa iba, do sweet little things for the one you love kahit
magmukha ka ng timang. The memories will be fun to recall later in life. Di mo mapapansin natatawa ka sa mga nagdaan sa buhay mo.
True love brings out the best in each other. Find something good in your partner and nurture it, encourage it and syempre, ENJOY it.
It’s healthy to fight, wag lang magkaka black eyean. You’ll see dun nyo matetest ang tatag ng relasyon. Doon mo rin sya makikilala ng mabuti.
Its called test of fire. Di mahalaga how dalas you fight. What matters is how often you make bati. Batiin mo sya… magpabati sya sayo, magbati kayo….
Life is about growth not growing old. Grow with it but not grow old with it.
At eto naman ang masakit na parte…. When break up comes and it’s time to say goodbye, don’t doubt the love you had just because it didn’t last.
Expect mo na yung tears, pain, sleepless nights and be ready with depression. Ika nga “it’s when you hurt the worse that you love the MOST.”
Life is a balance. And love is both holding on and letting go. Know when to fight for your man and when to let him go. Madalas lang matigas talaga ang ulo at puso natin, alam naman nating dapat ng E-LET GO….. ginogoyo mo pa sarili mo.
It is…
It’s nice to know that you’re secured with that someone. That even if the rain is pouring hard and the sky is almost dark, he’ll never leave you just so you won’t feel alone. Even if his friends had left him (and even if he has to be somewhere else) he’d still stay by your side, just so you won’t feel alone.
It’s so good to know that you have someone who’ll be willing to help you cope up in every frustrations you’re having. Every depressing moments, every down moments, every self-worthless-realization moments, he’d be there, not because you want someone to be with you, but because he wants to be with you.
It’s great to know when a person appreciates every little thing you do. Even a smile would mean a lot to him, just because you own that smile. And that even if no words are expressed as long as the eyes understand, you’d be able to communicate, just like that.
It’s overwhelming when a person tells you that he loves you for who you are. He may not have an answer when you ask him why, but really, he doesn’t have to have reasons for loving you.
It’s more grateful to know that someone is grateful to have you. We don’t choose the people who enter our lives, so it must be luck that you have that person, then you have to be thankful. It may just be coincidence or fate, but whatever the reason is, you have to be thankful in having him the same way he is thankful for having you.
It’s a wonderful feeling when you’re on the verge of giving up the things you’ve worked hard for, someone isn’t just helping you carry the weight on your shoulders, but he carries it on his own because he’d also be in pain when you are in pain. And then you’ll realize, trials would all be worth it as long as you have him, not because he would do things for you, but because you gather all the strength you need, in him and his love.
It’s a superb feeling when one is willing to take the risks just so you’ll be happy. Unselfishness rule in him just so happiness would take over you.
It’s a nice feeling that when you’re apart, and days seem to be long, that person misses you. Yes, you might feel bad about not being with each other, but knowing that you feel the same way would drive those blues away, thinking, you’d fight over that feeling because you’re looking forward to seeing each other, and that’s something to be happy about.
It’s a great feeling when he wants to be with you because of the happiness you have when you’re together. That even if corny jokes and senseless stories are told, it won’t matter as long as you’re together.
It’s a lovely feeling when someone thinks about your future, with or without him. He cares and he cares enough to think of you and what you’ll be someday. But of course, he also wants to be in it someday.
It’s a nice feeling when you can be who you really are with that person. No pretentions, no lies, no hypocrisy, because he accepts you for who you are. You can be funny, you can be embarrased, but it won’t matter coz it doesn’t matter to him. Trust and faith in each other keeps you alive. And it will always do.
It’s good to know that you have someone who’ll not have the intentions of breaking your heart. Instead, he would be willing to mend it, picking up the broken pieces of your heart that your past love have scattered in the ground. He may not be able to put the pieces back to where they really belong, but you shouldn’t mind, because he had repaired that heart of yours, and he fixed it in his own way. He loves you in his own way, not the way your past did. He fixed your heart in a different way, to keep you from feeling the pains of your past heartache and to make you feel, the love, that he’s unselfishly giving.
It’s a great feeling when that person has every effort to let you feel what he feels for you. Because of the distractions, you may not hear him shout it to the world, but as long as you feel it, his efforts has paid off, big time. And when you feel the same way too… He’d feel as if he’s the luckiest person alive.
… when in fact, you’re more blessed to have him.
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