letting go….
Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns. Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but the man who loves you more.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. We then start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.
To let go of someone doesn’t mean we have to stop loving, it only means that we allow that person to find his/her own happiness without expecting him/her to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting ourselves free from all bitterness, hatred and anger that keep in our heart. Do not let the bitterness rare away our strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten us, but rather let we grow with wisdom in bearing it.
We don’t have to forget someone we love. What we need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for ourselves..
Be sensible and let our mind speak for itself. Listen not only to our feelings but to reason as well.
Always remember that if we lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow: If we lose love that doesn’t mean we failed in love.
Cry, if we have to, but make it sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to us. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.