I’VE LEARNED…

July 6th, 2009

I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back. I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it. I’ve learned that it’s not what you have in your live, but who you have in your life that counts. I’ve learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes, after that, you’d better know something.

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do. I’ve learned that it’s not what happens to people, it’s what they do about it. I’ve learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides. I’ve learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you’ll see them. I’ve learned that you can keep going long after you think you can’t.

I’ve learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. I’ve learned that there are people, who love you dearly, but just don’t know how to show it.I’ve learned that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel. I’ve learned that true friendship continues to grow even over the longest distance same goes for true love.

I’ve learned that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I’ve learned that it isn’t always enough to be forgive by others, sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself. I’ve learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn’t stop for your grief. I’ve learned that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other and just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

I’ve learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions. I’ve learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. I’ve learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves get farther in life. I’ve learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.
I’ve learned that writing, As well as talking, Can ease emotional pains. I’ve learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon. I’ve learned that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings and standing up for what you believe. I’ve learned to love and be loved. I’ve learned….

Follow your bliss…

July 2nd, 2009

Sometimes, if you are alone and doing nothing… you’ll just find yourself thinking a lot of things… so many questions are floating in your mind… like, what if… what will be the next thing to do… why am I doing this… am I really happy… but one thing is for sure… you will end up still wondering… and your questions are still left unanswered….

 

Bakit nga ba ganun… dumarating ka sa punto ng buhay mo na ayaw mo na… na napapagod ka na… pero wala kang choice kung hindi ituloy ang nasimulan mo na… Sabi ng nakakarami, kapag mahal mo… natututo kang mag sacrifice… natututunan mong tanggapin ang mga bagay na sa iba eh mahirap tanggapin at mahirap intindihan… pero hanggang kailan mo matatanggap ang isang bagay na alam mong sa una pa lang eh talo ka na… dapat mo pa bang ipaglaban ang isang bagay na alam mong hindi mo ipinaglalaban… dahil alam mo sa sarili mo na wala kang laban… these are few questions na hangga ngayon ang hirap ipaliwanag ang sagot… is this what you call real love???… na just because you love him/her nakakaya mong tiisin ang lahat???… katarantaduhan hind ba????? Pero ano nga ba ang magagawa mo… wala nmn di ba… dahil kahit anong pilit mong isaksak sa iyong isipan mo na mali ang lahat… na hindi dapat… pilit din lumalaban ang puso mo…. Nakakalungkot isipin na kahit alam mong meron kang magagawa…hindi mo kayang gawin… ‘nak ng putsa oh… ang gulo ng ikot ng mundo…pero kung tutuusin iisang direksyon lng naman umiikot ang mundo…pabilog lang naman di ba??? Pero bakit marami ang naliligaw ng daan????…..

 

Well well well, I guess we cannot change the fact that this is what life is all about… facing difficulties, heartaches, different kinds of problems, a lot of humps and bumps in our way… but the important thing here is… you can still stand up despite how many times you fall… you still find solutions in every problem that you face… you still manage to continue driving your life regardless of the humps and bumps… and you still continue to love even if it hurts you a million times…

 

I just want to end this with a quotation I got from one blogger name Larry…

 

“Stop comparing yourself to anyone else, as you’d just be a 2nd rate version of them. You are not them. You’re Different. Be yourself! Like yourself! Right now, YOU are perfect. No one else can ever be like you. Be at peace with that. Accept it. As a human being, I believe that you are great. Regardless of what has happened to you in your life. Regardless of how young or old you think you might be. There is something magnificent about you. There is something powerful within, that’s greater than the world. It will begin to emerge, it will take over your life. It will feed you, It will clothe you, it will guide you, protect you, direct you, sustain your very existenance. If you let it. That is what I know for sure. Feel Good about life. Have Fun With it. “Follow your Bliss.”